Your main motivation is to be seen to make good things happen. Maybe you do actually care, but what really matters is that others recognise how effective your giving is. This makes you look good and looking good makes you feel good. There’s no ‘Secret Millionaire’ in you* – what would be the point of missing out on the good feels and reputation? If other people benefit from your generosity, it’s a win win. The questions for us are: do we agree with the rules of your game? Do want the win of your money, if our association with you might damage our integrity?

*the irony of course being that Secret Millionaires are nothing of the sort, so maybe that’s exactly what you are.